I’m Lira van Staden,  a Divorce Doula dedicated to supporting women through the emotional and practical challenges of separation and life after divorce.

Over a decade ago, I went through my own divorce while raising my two boys. It was a deeply transformative and difficult time. I had to rebuild my life from the ground up — emotionally, financially, and personally.

With the help of a strong support system and a lot of inner work, I found my way through. From my own experience, I realized how many women feel lost, isolated, or overwhelmed during divorce. That’s why I’m here — to walk alongside you, offering guidance, comfort, and tools to help you heal, reclaim your identity, and create a life you love.

Whether you're in the thick of separation or navigating the aftershocks, you don’t have to do it alone